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我愿意给每个人机会，但是过程中也会把利弊说清楚，就是不知道这个追体现在哪里……如果是对我这个人的想法感兴趣，就算实际聊起来并不适合也完全可以相处成朋友吧，如果是别的方面，比如现实层面上的，我应该会逃走。

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关系中最困难的就是这个二分法，还是看人和相处久了的判断

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是的，所以就算互相有很大的好感，唐突告白也会让对方瞬间产生很大的压力清醒过来

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消除难得幻想

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又幻想了，幻想有人会主动追你 $\":tieba_laugh:\"$

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经典反面教材，再拿出来鞭一次尸 $\":cherry_blossom_cat:\"$

\n $\"Ecoli\"$ \n Ecoli — #1 in 记一次失败的表白\n

大肠杆君（以下称“常”）正如往常一样在寝室休息，突然收到了一位很久没有联系的高中女同学（以下称”张“）的微信。

背景

高一时常和张分在同一个班里，机缘巧合下他们同时被学生会录取，并安排在同一天值班，于是常和张有了很多独处的时间。出于对各种巧合的感慨，常对张很照顾，无论是在学习方面还是在生活方面，常都表现出高度的耐心与细致。就这样若即若离过了一年，高二文理分科，常和张去了不同的班级，同时常为了专心学习也退出了学生会。常再很少想起张，张却时不时来找常，每次就是在门口聊一段时间，交流当前的状况，吐槽学校和老师。又这样的状态又维持了一年，张出国去读美高，常继续备战高考。张临走前，曾希望再见常一面，却在各种巧合下，常最终没有走出教室，张的心愿最终没能满足。

常待人接物时常用的态度就是耐心与细致，他不想伤害任何一个人，也不想任何人受到伤害。这让常在同学之中人缘很好，也有很多人对常表达过欣赏。但如果揭下常的面具，心智尚不成熟的他其实是一个习惯于讨好他人、自卑内向的人。他对任何人的好都是出于习惯，他不希望失去任何一个已经成为朋友的人，也没有勇气与他人深入交流内心的想法。在高考的压力下，他进一步封锁自己的内心，不去思考与学习无关的内容，拒绝与他人深入交流，选择性地遗忘了很多事。

跨越大洋的交流

自从张去了美国之后，两人已经 2 年多没有联系了。收到张的信息，常十分惊讶，却还是十分友好地与张聊了起来。2 年过去，常和张都已经考上了心怡的大学，常大二，张大一。张向常打听他的恋爱情况，这让常十分意外。向来自卑的常从未有勇气想过与某位异性发展关系，母胎 solo 了近 19 年。常如实回答了当前的情况，这让张愈发积极，不断用信息轰炸常，让常不胜其烦。就这样，常接通了张的微信电话。

在电话里，两人从校园文化、国家政策聊到高中同学们的去向，并且对一些新出现的高中同学情侣深入交换意见看法。常高度肯定张前往美国之后做出的积极改变，称其学习能力有了极大提高。张同样肯定了常的学习成果，并对此表达了敬佩与赞扬。在天南海北聊了一个多小时后，常委婉地表达了希望休息的意思，并准备结束通话，此时，张突然向常表达了心意。常被这个突如其来的表白吓坏了，他从来没有认真思考过与异性交往，也没有勇气接受来自异性的爱意，一个太平洋的距离和 15 小时的时差更让常压力山大。短暂思考过后，常选择拒绝。

即便是明确被拒绝，张也没有放弃，而是不依不饶地尝试说服常答应。而常则坚持表示拒绝。张的不依不饶让常感到无可奈何，又不忍心直接挂断电话，怕这样会伤害到张。常几次沉默，几次叹气，张渐渐开始着急了，带着一丝哭腔要常不要叹气。下定决心后，常用一种非常决绝的语气再次表达了拒绝。这一次，沉默很久。张同意两人继续做朋友，通话结束。

复盘与反思

在收到张的消息的时候，常就应该注意到异常。即使是按照常自己的习惯，他几乎不会只是为了闲聊去打扰其他人，主动找到别人往往是为了一些十分重要的事情。常没能从张的言行中发现异常，没有做好相应准备。

常自小就是一个自卑的人，他从来都不想伤害任何人，为此，他甚至不惜一直与他人保持距离，因为他相信保持距离能减少人与人的羁绊，进而减少伤害。可事实并非总是如此，无论如何，常都十分肯定他伤害到张了。只要常还选择拒绝，伤害就几乎不可避免。

伤害无法避免，但常依然选择拒绝，他没有准备好接受爱意，也没有信心、没有能力去维系关系。处理身边的人际关系尚且吃力，更不要提横跨 15 个小时的异地关系。常做出这个决定，无非两害相权取其轻，他可以想象他需要做出的努力与牺牲，他认为这个关系是错误的。与其为了避免短期的伤害而在此后的时间里反复折磨，最后分手，不如从一开始就断了这个念头。当然，未经尝试，常也不知道他们最后会不会分手，但正是他想到了这些，他便没了向前迈步的勇气。

张已经明确表达了自己的心意，那么，常喜欢张吗？这个问题常无法回答。张的确是一个好女孩，常或许的确对三年前的她有好感。但是两年多过去，突然找来的她，还会是常喜欢的女孩吗？再加上前面的提到的一些顾虑，常无法鼓起勇气说自己喜欢张，即使常十分认可张的勇气，但自己还是决定做一个懦夫。

这是常的第一次，也是张的第一次，却以常的退缩而草草收尾。拒绝送上门的机会，或许这正是常失败的原因。

后记

大肠杆君依然没有从这次事件中完全走出来，愧疚感一直压在他的心上。他决定把这些写下来，说出来，在这个世界上留下一些记录。大肠杆君的失败或许并不会因此改变，而他的这些意识流的记录，止增笑耳。

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这类事情遇到好几次了😂😂 所以还是得线下多接触，一般莫名其妙就在一起了

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一线城市主动追的女生多点

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窝是颜控，看看对方再说

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无事献殷勤，非奸即盗。
\n这句话对于我这种普男来说极其正确 $\":tieba_hehe:\"$

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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靠在身上也太超标了，要是我的话一秒就投降了 🐀

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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$\"image\"$

男的是这样的 🤡

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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又幻想了，幻想有人会主动追你 $\":tieba_laugh:\"$
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☝️ 🤓

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不是超标，一般来说见面一两次就会这样。
\n观念传统/开放只是程度不同。
\n你可能被左派的各种谎言和理论洗脑过于严重了，真实世界和你颅内的想法是完全不同的。

\n","createdAt":"2025-06-15 13:57:33.995718","updatedAt":"2025-06-15 13:57:33.995718","replyToPostNumber":15,"replyCount":1,"likeCount":0,"wordCount":73,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":4668,"username":"IO","name":null,"avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/86/f2/86f267c0aaa73835a999b7cc3a7e7a701605574eda9a2c2a56f5ddbbba64d1a9.avif","admin":true,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":"","signatureCooked":null}},{"id":56720,"postNumber":19,"raw":"[quote=\"shared_user, post:6, topic:14743, full:true, username:anonymous_coward\"]\n又幻想了，幻想有人会主动追你 :tieba_laugh:\n[/quote]\n\n可惜大多数人替代这种美梦幻想的是另一种悲观的幻想\n\n追求真实不是一件容易的事情，但有很高的价值","cooked":"

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又幻想了，幻想有人会主动追你 $\":tieba_laugh:\"$
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可惜大多数人替代这种美梦幻想的是另一种悲观的幻想

追求真实不是一件容易的事情，但有很高的价值

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你的左派指什么？

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