{"topic":{"id":9081,"title":"喜欢变得可爱","slug":"topic","categoryId":10,"createdAt":"2024-01-13 15:18:53.182566","bumpedAt":"2024-10-03 08:40:47.06761","views":745,"postsCount":32,"highestPostNumber":36,"likeCount":40,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"非常喜欢女装啊，想变成可爱的女孩子，但是条件不允许，不能乱吃药，只能在宿舍偷偷穿穿女装拍拍照片。性取向正常，但是好喜欢小男娘啊，小男娘算是女生吧？","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"category":{"id":10,"name":"游戏 / 娱乐","slug":"play","color":"ED207B"},"author":{"id":1454,"username":"none","name":null,"avatarUrl":null},"tags":[]},"posts":[{"id":21721,"postNumber":1,"raw":"非常喜欢女装啊，想变成可爱的女孩子，但是条件不允许，不能乱吃药，只能在宿舍偷偷穿穿女装拍拍照片。性取向正常，但是好喜欢小男娘啊，小男娘算是女生吧？\n\n![(Image by DALL-E 3) A young woman stands in a room filled with clothes, surrounded by various items, as she imagines a secret sanctuary within the domm room. (Captioned by AI)|1024x1024](/uploads/image/f5/4f/f54ff387ee27f0d3a63e5fa06c7c57c4901360b8da1354bd3e38b605542cb210.avif)","cooked":"

非常喜欢女装啊，想变成可爱的女孩子，但是条件不允许，不能乱吃药，只能在宿舍偷偷穿穿女装拍拍照片。性取向正常，但是好喜欢小男娘啊，小男娘算是女生吧？

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支持变可爱

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无所谓，热带风味 🙅‍♀️

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不吃药就好，其他随便。
\n真喜欢小男娘就不要在意性别了，还是和你的性取向分开看待吧。

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Dear Eternity

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你交有没有可爱 mtf 啊？好像认识啊

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打 oi 的好像有很多 mtf，最起码是长头发，你可以在学校多观察敲代码的长头发同学

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曾经为了找对象暴减 40 斤，减完顺带女装 Cosplay 了一下。发现并不是瘦下来女装了就能很可爱，因此消沉过半小时 🤥也从此对 Cosplay 有了新的看法

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我倒是觉得无论男女，高高瘦瘦起码都会提升一点形象...尤其是腿？

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很多人想变女生其实是缺爱，羡慕小女孩能被他人无条件宠爱。国内 mtf 群体的普遍特征：计算机编程、音游、高强度网上冲浪、二次元等等，都能显示出 their 孤独感，和大部分女生会有的喜好差别很大。

社会要求所有男性都表演得强硬、阳刚，这让希望得到宠爱和关心的大量年轻男性产生了强烈的疏离感、不匹配感，或者说 荒诞感 Absurdity。荒诞感的一大来源就是人的主观能动性的可支配性与命运的不可掌控性之间的矛盾。

我注意到 X 上有些 mtf 会认为自己每天吃药、与家人和亲朋好友作斗争等等是为了活成自己想要的样子；而另一部份 mtf 会认为自己当下受苦的终极目标是牺牲，从而造就住在自己身体里的那个她。

这代表了人在面对荒诞感时所选择的两条路线：斗争与自杀。

说起来，人生真是一个极其荒诞的事情。命运给了你思考的能力、努力的机会，却又喜爱一次次在易如反掌间将你的奋斗化为虚无。

对于女生也是一样，社会要求自己表演出所谓母性，而这与很多人在事业等方面追求进步的强烈意愿相悖。

做女生还是做男生没有哪边更加轻松，性别焦虑将会长期存在。我们当然可以劝说很多跨儿，尽量选择对自己和他人伤害最小的方式来解决问题，但绝不能否认 them 遭受苦难的现实——所有他人都是加害者的一份子。

同时我们也很开心地看到，这个世界正在打破许多传统观念的束缚，人类群体一天比一天生活得更加自由和开放。

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另外，我认为对可爱的追求也有一部分日本二次元萌文化的影响

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美好的幻想

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爆減 20kg，厲害啊，有好好吃飯嗎

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看看这个妹妹的性别转换手术经历

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我不想重置性别，我并不认为自己应该是女性，我的家人也必定无法接受，我不想和他们起争执

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功能主义：看起来是女生就是女生。
\n此外，找个可爱型的伴侣也可以。

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什么 duck typing

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你会多少种语言

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为什么这个有 onebox

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你插链接在单独的一行，很多域名的网址都支持，not to mention wijipedia

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我只会拉丁语，但是我学会了使用 ChatGPT，所以我可以说任何语言

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“小女孩能被他人无条件宠爱”本身就是一个伪命题。
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如果楼主现在很痛苦的话，给楼主指一下路。交大 mtf 有组织，我可以提供信息。
\n至少抱团取暖可以在当下提供一些心理慰藉。

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OP 可能现在偶尔焦虑一下，没有想要跨。不过我也可以指条路：

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可以当女高管（不是）

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很愉快地胖回来十斤了

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在門被确诊为 mtf(悲)(bushi)

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你这种叫天赋党 :innocent_rofl:

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（语文不好，随便看看）

我或许通过自己的见闻总结了一些个人关于这个问题的想法：

直接给自己下定义/出柜爆柜/开始滥用药物会引起非常大的沉没成本。

比如说像是由于认知一致性理论，当你为自己下定义之后，为了维持认知一致性，你可能会寻找信息来支持这一认同，并倾向于选择那些与你已经做出的决定相一致的信息，并且最后有“因为我是 xxx，所以我要 xxx”之类的想法。

或者说在各种 qq 电报小团体或者是大数据影响下的知乎等软件里，这种回声室效应会显得更加明显，在这种群体中可能会接触到更多强调的所谓积极的信息，而这些信息可能对个人的认同产生进一步影响。

简单的说就是：魔怔->好像已经没法回头了->越来越魔怔->我的行为一定是正确的->越来越魔怔

也许是我总结的合理构建自己认同的方法：

1.保持理智

2.不要给自己下定义

3.远离会使你困惑的人/事

4.多考虑十年甚至是二十年之后的未来

5.多把精力放在自我提升上

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同意
\nbtw，头像画师我也很喜欢

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无所谓，热带风味 🙅‍♀️

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说得好。私以为这种调节模式适用于打破任何信息茧房。

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RLE.wiki 上这个甚至是我写的（
\n你交虽然有 Trans 但是感觉见到的概率不是很大

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社恐是这样的 $\"IMG_2536\"$

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