{"topic":{"id":387,"title":"在西交怎么找对象","slug":"topic","categoryId":6,"createdAt":"2023-06-03 12:56:52.838279","bumpedAt":"2024-04-18 04:38:26.895885","views":2504,"postsCount":28,"highestPostNumber":29,"likeCount":73,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"矮穷胖黑英语垃圾体育废物社交蠢材去 new 一个，结果操作系统不给我分配内存","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"category":{"id":6,"name":"寻🐱/寻物/表白/交友","slug":"people","color":"F1592A"},"author":{"id":209,"username":"mouse","name":"伍欣格","avatarUrl":null},"tags":[]},"posts":[{"id":801,"postNumber":1,"raw":"矮穷胖黑\n英语垃圾\n体育废物\n社交蠢材\n去 new 一个，结果操作系统不给我分配内存","cooked":"

矮穷胖黑
\n英语垃圾
\n体育废物
\n社交蠢材
\n去 new 一个，结果操作系统不给我分配内存

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虽然我也不知道怎么找，但请不要这么说自己 🥲 😢

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这是客观事实啊 😭 😭

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虽然但是，对于外校女生来说，你至少学习很好（
\n感觉大家都挺普通的，优秀的只是少数，也有很多普通的女生

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new 不行的话可以试试 malloc 🥰

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胖
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英语垃圾
\n体育废物
\n社交蠢材
\n

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这几项花一年就可以有显著改善的，改善速度非线性，对提升性吸引力帮助很大。

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$\"Donald$

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怎样更容易结识到新同学呢不是本校的也行，想听听大家有什么好建议

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很认真的说，我觉得要多去跟女生接触，你可以先从社团跟你的爱好去认识别的女生，因为跟志同道合的人相处很轻松也比较没有压力，而且别带着目的，单纯就是去多认识新朋友，这对于你不管是社交或是找对象都是很大的进步哦！加油！

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蹲对象！！！虽然没有也蹲一下

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try calloc

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话
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好家伙，我试过的，十年好友在一起了 2weeks 就分了手 hhh

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俺也一样，所以为什么要纠结找对象呢？在你接受自己之前怎么能指望别人接受你呢？

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找肯定是要找的，这个是由人类体内的性激素、催产素等激素决定的，不是大脑能决定的，事实上大脑反而会受此影响，比如有个名词“恋爱脑”。

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蹲对象～🥵
\n性别男目标男🥰

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然后发现跟自己志同道合的人都是男的（确信
\n我是属于认识一些兴趣相合的网友比较多的，也跟好几个朋友见过面，但是基本都是同性，而且见一次面不容易，更别说跟异性同好联谊什么的 😇

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加一。
\n而且因为长时间不和除了家人外的异性交流，现在对待和异性交流第一个想的就是“麻烦”“恐惧”……
\n~~难道真的要和纸片人过一辈子吗~~

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我倒觉得恋爱并非生活必需品。对于我们这种生活一团糟的人来说，能够一点点把自己的生活理顺，所带来的多巴胺已经足够满足日常生活的动力。而若是非要纠结找对象，非要把恋爱加入到自己乱麻一样的生活安排中，不可否认确实有变好的可能，但更多人更有可能在新鲜感过去后愈发疲惫，最后伤害彼此，留下一地鸡毛。

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建议是正常看待两性关系，不要觉得正常的沟通交流会给彼此带来困扰。说简单点就是别把女生当女生看，就当是正常人。在恋爱之前先做到正常与异性沟通，这样才会有能力在恋爱机会来临时把我住哦^_^

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你好，帅气的小哥哥

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在恋爱之前先做到正常与异性沟通
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之前回复因为感情而 desperate 的門友时也提过：

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和恋爱都无关我觉得。
\n不如先做到多社交🤔 多认识一些人没有坏处👀

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是否讨厌社交和实际做起来是否主动不一定是一一对应的，主要还是看在什么环境下和什么人社交

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