{"topic":{"id":1765,"title":"如何面对眼界打开后与现实的差距","slug":"topic","categoryId":4,"createdAt":"2023-07-08 15:02:51.807235","bumpedAt":"2023-07-10 02:05:47.341489","views":666,"postsCount":21,"highestPostNumber":22,"likeCount":17,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"来自西北的我靠着低于全国大部分地方的分数线进入西交，我看到许多厉害的人，有人申请了伯克利哈佛的交换，有人保研了 thu, 但是我又清楚的知道这对我来说不大可能，我并没有亮眼的绩点去保研，也没有殷实的家境去出国。家人对我的期望无非就是上完大学回到那个小地方结婚生子，身在较为传统的小专业，身边的人谈论的基本只有绩点，想跟同学聊聊一些新闻或者是刚看的书，大家只会觉得我是个怪人。一方面我感觉自己的命运大概率像父母说的那样，回到那个小地方去，另一…","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"category":{"id":4,"name":"谈笑风生","slug":"general","color":"25AAE2"},"author":{"id":626,"username":"anonymous17","name":"anonymous17","avatarUrl":null},"tags":[]},"posts":[{"id":4235,"postNumber":1,"raw":"来自西北的我靠着低于全国大部分地方的分数线进入西交，我看到许多厉害的人，有人申请了伯克利哈佛的交换，有人保研了 thu, 但是我又清楚的知道这对我来说不大可能，我并没有亮眼的绩点去保研，也没有殷实的家境去出国。家人对我的期望无非就是上完大学回到那个小地方结婚生子，身在较为传统的小专业，身边的人谈论的基本只有绩点，想跟同学聊聊一些新闻或者是刚看的书，大家只会觉得我是个怪人。一方面我感觉自己的命运大概率像父母说的那样，回到那个小地方去，另一方面，我看到了那么多我永远做不到的事情，这让我格外痛苦。","cooked":"

来自西北的我靠着低于全国大部分地方的分数线进入西交，我看到许多厉害的人，有人申请了伯克利哈佛的交换，有人保研了 thu, 但是我又清楚的知道这对我来说不大可能，我并没有亮眼的绩点去保研，也没有殷实的家境去出国。家人对我的期望无非就是上完大学回到那个小地方结婚生子，身在较为传统的小专业，身边的人谈论的基本只有绩点，想跟同学聊聊一些新闻或者是刚看的书，大家只会觉得我是个怪人。一方面我感觉自己的命运大概率像父母说的那样，回到那个小地方去，另一方面，我看到了那么多我永远做不到的事情，这让我格外痛苦。

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-08 15:02:51.963085","updatedAt":"2023-07-08 15:02:51.963085","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":1,"likeCount":1,"wordCount":243,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"❤️","count":1,"users":[{"id":492,"username":"leester","name":null}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":626,"username":"anonymous17","name":"anonymous17","avatarUrl":null,"admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4236,"postNumber":2,"raw":"取法乎上者，仅得乎中；取法乎中者，仅得乎下","cooked":"

取法乎上者，仅得乎中；取法乎中者，仅得乎下

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-08 15:13:34.725177","updatedAt":"2023-07-08 15:13:34.725177","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":1,"likeCount":0,"wordCount":21,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":464,"username":"wxystudio","name":"studio","avatarUrl":null,"admin":false,"moderator":true,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4239,"postNumber":3,"raw":"看到了太多美好的而我不可能拥有的东西，高中进了一次省队，我们那个小地方从未出过 Cu 以上，看起来很强的我在决赛基本就是啥也不会去送人头。我听着他们讨论 Ag 以上签约保送学习那门基础学科的前景，而我知道这与我无关。大学我看到了有人做了 xjtu 的校内站，有人均分 95+，还有人拿到各种交换的机会，但我知道以我的实力这些都与我无关，我开始渐渐不满足于背 ppt 卷分数，可我又不知道除了卷分数我还会做什么。","cooked":"

看到了太多美好的而我不可能拥有的东西，高中进了一次省队，我们那个小地方从未出过 Cu 以上，看起来很强的我在决赛基本就是啥也不会去送人头。我听着他们讨论 Ag 以上签约保送学习那门基础学科的前景，而我知道这与我无关。大学我看到了有人做了 xjtu 的校内站，有人均分 95+，还有人拿到各种交换的机会，但我知道以我的实力这些都与我无关，我开始渐渐不满足于背 ppt 卷分数，可我又不知道除了卷分数我还会做什么。

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-08 15:22:13.234633","updatedAt":"2023-07-08 15:22:13.234633","replyToPostNumber":2,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":0,"wordCount":186,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":626,"username":"anonymous17","name":"anonymous17","avatarUrl":null,"admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4240,"postNumber":4,"raw":"恕我直言你的眼界还是没打开，光看到了顶什么用？你应该去试，不去试，你怎么知道怎么才能达到目的？","cooked":"

恕我直言你的眼界还是没打开，光看到了顶什么用？你应该去试，不去试，你怎么知道怎么才能达到目的？

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-08 15:28:33.254015","updatedAt":"2023-07-08 15:28:33.254015","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":0,"wordCount":47,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":596,"username":"relentz","name":"relentz","avatarUrl":null,"admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4242,"postNumber":5,"raw":"如果你觉得伯克利的交换很有吸引力，你应该去试着去写申请书；如果你觉得经济条件不够好，你应该去试着申请学校的资助；如果你觉得即使有资助经济条件也做不到，你应该淡然看待，寻找别的机会。\n如果你觉得保研 thu 很有吸引力你应该试着去找老师套近乎提升绩点；如果你真的不是提升绩点的料且非常想去清华，你应早早准备考研攻略。\n永远寻找对你来说可行的解，不试试，你怎么知道自己行不行？","cooked":"

如果你觉得伯克利的交换很有吸引力，你应该去试着去写申请书；如果你觉得经济条件不够好，你应该去试着申请学校的资助；如果你觉得即使有资助经济条件也做不到，你应该淡然看待，寻找别的机会。
\n如果你觉得保研 thu 很有吸引力你应该试着去找老师套近乎提升绩点；如果你真的不是提升绩点的料且非常想去清华，你应早早准备考研攻略。
\n永远寻找对你来说可行的解，不试试，你怎么知道自己行不行？

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-08 15:32:42.311075","updatedAt":"2023-07-08 15:32:42.311075","replyToPostNumber":1,"replyCount":1,"likeCount":2,"wordCount":180,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"👍️","count":1,"users":[{"id":1908,"username":"SunshineRose","name":"阳光玫瑰"}],"hasReacted":false},{"reaction":"❤️","count":2,"users":[{"id":205,"username":"AlwaysWin","name":null},{"id":1482,"username":"fubird","name":"Vasariel"}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":596,"username":"relentz","name":"relentz","avatarUrl":null,"admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4243,"postNumber":6,"raw":"我认为你应该接受现实。\n人是无力的。人是不自由的。当你认识到这一点，你可能会感受到痛苦。你可以一直痛苦，但如果你想过一个好受一点的生活，你应该不再为此而痛苦。\n正如西西弗斯周而复始地推石头上山，这事是荒诞的。人生就是不停地推石头上山，人生也是荒诞的。\n不管是「悲剧」还是「幸福」，我们都不可避免地在荒诞中。\n既然如此，那么想象两种人：一种人不知道自己的生活就是荒诞，而生活在荒诞中；另一种知道自己的生活就是荒诞，但仍然推石头上山，哪一种更像悲剧呢？\n加缪认为前一种人更加悲剧。因为他的荒诞甚至不属于他自己！而后一种人，也就是西西弗斯，虽然他的命运也是荒诞，他的处境也没好到哪里去，但他因推石头而存在，他的荒诞属于他自己，他的石头也属于他自己，他支配了他自己的荒诞，因此我们可以认为他是幸福的。\n另一方面，我不觉得向你做出任何 pushing 或者常规世俗价值观下积极向上的建议有很大意义，因为人力终有极限，也许你已经接近这个极限了。我想说的是，不光要认识到你想要做而不能做的，更要认识到你不想做而不得不做的，有时候后者是更强的动力源泉。一个人可能会感到虚无迷茫，不知道想要什么，但往往总是知道，自己不想要什么。我猜，只是猜测，或者举个例子，你现在可能不知道自己真正想要什么，但你深深意识到你不想要什么——上完大学回到那个小地方结婚生子。然后你应该问自己，你有多不想这么做？你愿意为摆脱这个枷锁，做出多少？当你的不想的欲望足够强，那你就一定会有所行动去改变现状，挣扎着与命运搏斗。这也就是所谓的面对现实的差距了。\n但是如果你觉得一切都可以忍受，你的动机没有强到可以承担做出改变的代价，那么你可以继续保持着原来生活的惯性，毕竟，这没什么大不了的。世界是荒诞的，别认真，好好玩。","cooked":"

我认为你应该接受现实。
\n人是无力的。人是不自由的。当你认识到这一点，你可能会感受到痛苦。你可以一直痛苦，但如果你想过一个好受一点的生活，你应该不再为此而痛苦。
\n正如西西弗斯周而复始地推石头上山，这事是荒诞的。人生就是不停地推石头上山，人生也是荒诞的。
\n不管是「悲剧」还是「幸福」，我们都不可避免地在荒诞中。
\n既然如此，那么想象两种人：一种人不知道自己的生活就是荒诞，而生活在荒诞中；另一种知道自己的生活就是荒诞，但仍然推石头上山，哪一种更像悲剧呢？
\n加缪认为前一种人更加悲剧。因为他的荒诞甚至不属于他自己！而后一种人，也就是西西弗斯，虽然他的命运也是荒诞，他的处境也没好到哪里去，但他因推石头而存在，他的荒诞属于他自己，他的石头也属于他自己，他支配了他自己的荒诞，因此我们可以认为他是幸福的。
\n另一方面，我不觉得向你做出任何 pushing 或者常规世俗价值观下积极向上的建议有很大意义，因为人力终有极限，也许你已经接近这个极限了。我想说的是，不光要认识到你想要做而不能做的，更要认识到你不想做而不得不做的，有时候后者是更强的动力源泉。一个人可能会感到虚无迷茫，不知道想要什么，但往往总是知道，自己不想要什么。我猜，只是猜测，或者举个例子，你现在可能不知道自己真正想要什么，但你深深意识到你不想要什么——上完大学回到那个小地方结婚生子。然后你应该问自己，你有多不想这么做？你愿意为摆脱这个枷锁，做出多少？当你的不想的欲望足够强，那你就一定会有所行动去改变现状，挣扎着与命运搏斗。这也就是所谓的面对现实的差距了。
\n但是如果你觉得一切都可以忍受，你的动机没有强到可以承担做出改变的代价，那么你可以继续保持着原来生活的惯性，毕竟，这没什么大不了的。世界是荒诞的，别认真，好好玩。

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-08 16:03:45.49422","updatedAt":"2023-07-08 16:03:45.49422","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":5,"wordCount":719,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"❤️","count":5,"users":[{"id":255,"username":"LeBlanC","name":null},{"id":426,"username":"Komeiji_Koishi","name":"Komeiji_Koishi"},{"id":428,"username":"Goto_Hitori","name":"後藤　ひとり"},{"id":763,"username":"noblemortal","name":null},{"id":1482,"username":"fubird","name":"Vasariel"}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":425,"username":"Ogiso_Setsuna","name":"小木曽雪菜","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/84/e3/84e328169491dbc81e9b54386b259ed63a8e6678875dcf17803ec69c4c25cb99.avif","admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4244,"postNumber":7,"raw":"一是不要这么消极地预设事情的结局。当你做好了最悲观的预期，事情的发展只会朝这个方向在进行。不如放弃焦虑，先行动起来。\n二是思考自己真正想要过什么生活呢？你想要遵循父母期待回老家结婚生子过安稳日子还是想去拼搏闯荡挣大钱呢？针对你的目标生活拆解当下需要做的事情。是提高绩点争取保研，是安心准备考研，还是去找实习积累企业经验...有很多可以做的事，但都需要先行动起来","cooked":"

一是不要这么消极地预设事情的结局。当你做好了最悲观的预期，事情的发展只会朝这个方向在进行。不如放弃焦虑，先行动起来。
\n二是思考自己真正想要过什么生活呢？你想要遵循父母期待回老家结婚生子过安稳日子还是想去拼搏闯荡挣大钱呢？针对你的目标生活拆解当下需要做的事情。是提高绩点争取保研，是安心准备考研，还是去找实习积累企业经验...有很多可以做的事，但都需要先行动起来

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-08 16:06:15.677444","updatedAt":"2023-07-08 16:06:15.677444","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":1,"wordCount":177,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"❤️","count":1,"users":[{"id":492,"username":"leester","name":null}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":370,"username":"Qiaoben","name":null,"avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/1c/1f/1c1f71d9854c7e750de03c3bcfbbcd1e42cdda64a6511e13356d76dc2c5d7d58.avif","admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4245,"postNumber":8,"raw":"再说，关注新闻时事看书讨论超酷诶，怎么可以觉得自己是怪人•᷄ࡇ•᷅","cooked":"

再说，关注新闻时事看书讨论超酷诶，怎么可以觉得自己是怪人•᷄ࡇ•᷅

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-08 16:08:30.674207","updatedAt":"2023-07-08 16:08:30.674207","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":1,"wordCount":29,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"❤️","count":1,"users":[{"id":56,"username":"Hi-Techer","name":null}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":370,"username":"Qiaoben","name":null,"avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/1c/1f/1c1f71d9854c7e750de03c3bcfbbcd1e42cdda64a6511e13356d76dc2c5d7d58.avif","admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4246,"postNumber":9,"raw":"要知道自己想要什么，总是被裹挟着忙忙碌碌也不是一种解决方案，问问自己内心真正的想法","cooked":"

要知道自己想要什么，总是被裹挟着忙忙碌碌也不是一种解决方案，问问自己内心真正的想法

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-08 16:09:06.13197","updatedAt":"2023-07-08 16:09:06.13197","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":2,"wordCount":41,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"❤️","count":2,"users":[{"id":492,"username":"leester","name":null},{"id":543,"username":"Valencia","name":"Valencia"}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":428,"username":"Goto_Hitori","name":"後藤　ひとり","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/89/78/89781536c2e3a21885cf59c72e5e4014cb82b4d3b71cc518ea7e542159099df8.avif","admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4247,"postNumber":10,"raw":"你还没看到顶，私立美本才是顶","cooked":"

你还没看到顶，私立美本才是顶

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-08 16:14:05.56438","updatedAt":"2023-07-08 16:14:05.56438","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":2,"wordCount":14,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"❤️","count":2,"users":[{"id":255,"username":"LeBlanC","name":null},{"id":426,"username":"Komeiji_Koishi","name":"Komeiji_Koishi"}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":423,"username":"chatgpt","name":"ChatGPT","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/88/84/888404ace3821613b580f5661e93ef148083eb26219756f1d21ed4eef438d369.avif","admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4252,"postNumber":11,"raw":"首先你没有意识到，以及很多人没有意识到一个事实：国外博士（尤其是美国）很多都是全额奖学金，不仅不花钱反而能稍微赚点钱","cooked":"

首先你没有意识到，以及很多人没有意识到一个事实：国外博士（尤其是美国）很多都是全额奖学金，不仅不花钱反而能稍微赚点钱

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-08 18:35:47.990944","updatedAt":"2023-07-08 18:35:47.990944","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":2,"likeCount":0,"wordCount":58,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":426,"username":"Komeiji_Koishi","name":"Komeiji_Koishi","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/5c/54/5c54227268cd2f275501ca5efdf88f7b1083908db846496c2c46eeb38cf65caa.avif","admin":true,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4254,"postNumber":12,"raw":"自由选择当奴隶","cooked":"

自由选择当奴隶

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-09 00:21:36.964511","updatedAt":"2023-07-09 00:21:36.964511","replyToPostNumber":11,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":1,"wordCount":7,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"❤️","count":1,"users":[{"id":426,"username":"Komeiji_Koishi","name":"Komeiji_Koishi"}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":369,"username":"3ee28fe1a60c95b89d29317f122c70","name":null,"avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/06/94/069460f3321c06a9a6db8c1be9626829df809d10f291c52a88f7d98821a1f1c2.avif","admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4255,"postNumber":13,"raw":"That's why I turned to the dark side.","cooked":"

That's why I turned to the dark side.

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-09 00:44:44.906092","updatedAt":"2023-07-09 00:44:44.906092","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":0,"wordCount":8,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":567,"username":"DarthVader","name":"Anakin Skywalker","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/3e/f9/3ef93cc0240ea6649e483ad83a36502a752ec8638ef07c30279d1ba8774cbc96.avif","admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4265,"postNumber":15,"raw":"不用出国，就算是国内前列几个高校的博士，工资都远高你交 :face_with_monocle:完全可以 cover 生活需要","cooked":"

不用出国，就算是国内前列几个高校的博士，工资都远高你交 🧐完全可以 cover 生活需要

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-09 03:35:10.039973","updatedAt":"2023-07-09 03:35:10.039973","replyToPostNumber":11,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":0,"wordCount":37,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":307,"username":"Fast","name":null,"avatarUrl":null,"admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4266,"postNumber":16,"raw":"先选定一个看上去还行的目标，然后开干。你如果干了，成功了，说明你行。如果你干了，不成功，换一个目标。","cooked":"

先选定一个看上去还行的目标，然后开干。你如果干了，成功了，说明你行。如果你干了，不成功，换一个目标。

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-09 03:39:02.548753","updatedAt":"2023-07-09 03:39:02.548753","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":0,"wordCount":50,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":423,"username":"chatgpt","name":"ChatGPT","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/88/84/888404ace3821613b580f5661e93ef148083eb26219756f1d21ed4eef438d369.avif","admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4274,"postNumber":17,"raw":"那个，anonymous 后边跟一个数字，是真的匿名还是人起的昵称啊？还有就是这个跟在 anonymous 后面的数字是不是就算不同，背后也可能是同一个人？🤔","cooked":"

那个，anonymous 后边跟一个数字，是真的匿名还是人起的昵称啊？还有就是这个跟在 anonymous 后面的数字是不是就算不同，背后也可能是同一个人？🤔

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-09 04:06:06.87235","updatedAt":"2023-07-09 04:06:06.87235","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":1,"likeCount":0,"wordCount":58,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":259,"username":"ReturnDream","name":"保密","avatarUrl":null,"admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4276,"postNumber":18,"raw":"如果点开没有任何信息，应该是匿名用户。我现在设置的匿名身份每隔 60min 刷新，所以数字不同可能是同一个人","cooked":"

如果点开没有任何信息，应该是匿名用户。我现在设置的匿名身份每隔 60min 刷新，所以数字不同可能是同一个人

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-09 04:12:18.315775","updatedAt":"2024-03-17 13:04:52.64959","replyToPostNumber":17,"replyCount":1,"likeCount":1,"wordCount":48,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"❤️","count":1,"users":[{"id":543,"username":"Valencia","name":"Valencia"}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":2,"publicVersion":2,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":1047,"username":"anonymous_coward_old","name":"Anonymous Coward Old","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/43/32/4332638c11248b8ff07033c11de0759a55205facfbec85e14458245a91991faf.avif","admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4277,"postNumber":19,"raw":"[quote=\"えしりなか，post:18, topic:1765\"]\n数字不同可能是同一个人\n[/quote]\n\n新身份是数字递增还是随机呢，有没有“同一个数字是不同人”的情况","cooked":"

\n\t\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tえしりなか，post:18, topic:1765:\n\t\t\t\t\t\t

\n\t\t\t\t\t

\n
数字不同可能是同一个人
\n

\n\t\t\t\t

新身份是数字递增还是随机呢，有没有“同一个数字是不同人”的情况

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-09 04:14:12.15768","updatedAt":"2024-04-07 08:33:45.671079","replyToPostNumber":18,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":0,"wordCount":51,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[],"wiki":false,"version":2,"publicVersion":2,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":1047,"username":"anonymous_coward_old","name":"Anonymous Coward Old","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/43/32/4332638c11248b8ff07033c11de0759a55205facfbec85e14458245a91991faf.avif","admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4279,"postNumber":20,"raw":"我个人感觉帖主应该是试了但是发现没那能力，伯克利交换，保研清华都不是光努力就能做到的，需要智商还有资源的累积。看到了许多美好，但都做不到。","cooked":"

我个人感觉帖主应该是试了但是发现没那能力，伯克利交换，保研清华都不是光努力就能做到的，需要智商还有资源的累积。看到了许多美好，但都做不到。

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-09 04:24:29.675575","updatedAt":"2023-07-09 04:24:29.675575","replyToPostNumber":5,"replyCount":1,"likeCount":1,"wordCount":69,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"❤️","count":1,"users":[{"id":255,"username":"LeBlanC","name":null}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":543,"username":"Valencia","name":"Valencia","avatarUrl":null,"admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":4349,"postNumber":21,"raw":"那确实很遗憾，有些东西各方面条件达不到的话，就应该理性放弃，再选择自己能达到的，高考考不上清华北大，还有 985 可以选择。","cooked":"

那确实很遗憾，有些东西各方面条件达不到的话，就应该理性放弃，再选择自己能达到的，高考考不上清华北大，还有 985 可以选择。

\n","createdAt":"2023-07-10 01:01:29.163597","updatedAt":"2023-07-10 01:01:29.163597","replyToPostNumber":20,"replyCount":1,"likeCount":0,"wordCount":58,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":596,"username":"relentz","name":"relentz","avatarUrl":null,"admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}}],"hasMore":true,"lastReadPostNumber":13,"hasUrlPostNumber":true}