{"topic":{"id":15556,"title":"本科毕业生能为学弟学妹们留些什么？","slug":"topic","categoryId":4,"createdAt":"2026-03-12 02:38:07.904176","bumpedAt":"2026-03-13 11:05:58.080147","views":361,"postsCount":9,"highestPostNumber":9,"likeCount":22,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"lz是22级本，没有意外的话6月就毕业了。我本科期间的生涯算是非常顺的，升学去向既是个人理想也可以说是专业里面比较突出的。四年生涯多少积攒了一些认识，从科研到学工，从学业到自我实现......如何在走之前（甚至走之后）用这些认识帮助学弟学妹们？我现在的做法是和学弟学妹们聊天解惑，为学弟学妹们解答问题，主要问我的也是保研升学+社交方面的问题。但是这一切建立在学弟学妹们主动来问，并通过多轮对话（唐突）明确问题核心的基础上。我在思考：…","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"category":{"id":4,"name":"谈笑风生","slug":"general","color":"25AAE2"},"author":{"id":466,"username":"Ti","name":"Ti","avatarUrl":null},"tags":[]},"posts":[{"id":71734,"postNumber":1,"raw":"lz是22级本，没有意外的话6月就毕业了。\n我本科期间的生涯算是非常顺的，升学去向既是个人理想也可以说是专业里面比较突出的。四年生涯多少积攒了一些认识，从科研到学工，从学业到自我实现......如何在走之前（甚至走之后）用这些认识帮助学弟学妹们？\n我现在的做法是和学弟学妹们聊天解惑，为学弟学妹们解答问题，主要问我的也是保研升学+社交方面的问题。但是这一切建立在学弟学妹们主动来问，并通过多轮对话（唐突）明确问题核心的基础上。\n我在思考：\n如何帮到还不明确自己问题所在的学弟学妹们？\n如何为学弟学妹们提供负责任的生涯规划路径模板，或者适用性更广一些的本科生存思维方式？我想到的是写类似飞跃手册一样的东西，但是因为不想协调编者内部的三观差异，打算自己完成；又但是，我感觉自己一个人制作最后会变成个人偏见的灌输，我还是想让学弟学妹们多了解各种活法、多听来自不同人的经验的，有点犹豫；如果写成所谓“自传”只展示自己的这一种活法，顺便发表一些讨论，但是......正常本科生谁写自传啊（\n以及，如何确保自己做的内容贴近同学们的需要？有些东西低年级时候会有疑问但是后面会随着见识增加而自动解开，有些好东西如果不知道那这辈子就都不知道了，有些东西低年级没有意识到而高年级发现很有必要......如何确定要讨论哪些内容？\n另外，每个人的历史、三观、生涯规划也是很不同的，如何在尊重学弟学妹各异的成长经历、个人认识、未来展望的前提下以个人视角提出相对有益、有效的建议？覆盖面大概不可能针对所有人了，如何选择自己经验的覆盖读者？\n欢迎讨论，诚恳接受意见和批评，真的希望能帮到学弟学妹们","cooked":"

lz是22级本，没有意外的话6月就毕业了。
\n我本科期间的生涯算是非常顺的，升学去向既是个人理想也可以说是专业里面比较突出的。四年生涯多少积攒了一些认识，从科研到学工，从学业到自我实现......如何在走之前（甚至走之后）用这些认识帮助学弟学妹们？
\n我现在的做法是和学弟学妹们聊天解惑，为学弟学妹们解答问题，主要问我的也是保研升学+社交方面的问题。但是这一切建立在学弟学妹们主动来问，并通过多轮对话（唐突）明确问题核心的基础上。
\n我在思考：
\n如何帮到还不明确自己问题所在的学弟学妹们？
\n如何为学弟学妹们提供负责任的生涯规划路径模板，或者适用性更广一些的本科生存思维方式？我想到的是写类似飞跃手册一样的东西，但是因为不想协调编者内部的三观差异，打算自己完成；又但是，我感觉自己一个人制作最后会变成个人偏见的灌输，我还是想让学弟学妹们多了解各种活法、多听来自不同人的经验的，有点犹豫；如果写成所谓“自传”只展示自己的这一种活法，顺便发表一些讨论，但是......正常本科生谁写自传啊（
\n以及，如何确保自己做的内容贴近同学们的需要？有些东西低年级时候会有疑问但是后面会随着见识增加而自动解开，有些好东西如果不知道那这辈子就都不知道了，有些东西低年级没有意识到而高年级发现很有必要......如何确定要讨论哪些内容？
\n另外，每个人的历史、三观、生涯规划也是很不同的，如何在尊重学弟学妹各异的成长经历、个人认识、未来展望的前提下以个人视角提出相对有益、有效的建议？覆盖面大概不可能针对所有人了，如何选择自己经验的覆盖读者？
\n欢迎讨论，诚恳接受意见和批评，真的希望能帮到学弟学妹们

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支持 🥰 lz是啥专业的呀

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Hard time comes again and never leave.

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每个人的历史、三观、生涯规划也是很不同的，如何在尊重学弟学妹各异的成长经历、个人认识、未来展望的前提下以个人视角提出相对有益、有效的建议？覆盖面大概不可能针对所有人了，如何选择自己经验的覆盖读者？
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或许可以在分享开头交代自己的背景方向以及分享可能面向的读者（）

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长恨此身非我有何时忘却营营

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reasonable
\n有点前言的意思（doge）

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是能动的

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只要写自己的经历就行了。写自己遇到了什么问题，有什么困惑，最后怎么解决的，形成了什么样的方法论。主要是写怎么改造自己的三观吧。遇到了问题，然后用现在三观解决不了问题，感到非常痛苦。之后重新改造自己三观，解决这样的问题。
\n遇到类似困惑的人，自然能从这份记录里找到他们自己的影子，然后他们就知道怎么办了。
\n我这里有一个假设，西交的学弟学妹们遇到的痛苦、困惑都有共性。那也就是说，只要无差别分发给所有困惑的人就可以了，有缘人自然能从你的经历里学到他们想要的东西。

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留下每年/每学期/每季度最深刻影响/记忆的事情/问题就行了，至于其他的，或许会在讨论中得到解决

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谢谢！很有启发！

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确实，遇到的关键的事情，作出的关键的判断

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