{"topic":{"id":14620,"title":"快乐 bingo","slug":"topic","categoryId":4,"createdAt":"2025-05-26 03:57:23.187202","bumpedAt":"2025-05-26 12:18:18.492682","views":188,"postsCount":9,"highestPostNumber":9,"likeCount":14,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"你幸福吗？","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"category":{"id":4,"name":"谈笑风生","slug":"general","color":"25AAE2"},"author":{"id":1590,"username":"Revan","name":" ","avatarUrl":null},"tags":[]},"posts":[{"id":52137,"postNumber":1,"raw":"![35f452ab4d3c7f1d46ea5a50ff341b4b|566x500](/uploads/image/76/29/7629478b7bf2412b38bb77b11bb8e7ba2426135fcdb2d991b35766274788417c.avif)\n***你幸福吗？***","cooked":"

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\n你幸福吗？

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\n差点连线成功（）

\n","createdAt":"2025-05-26 04:10:37.505295","updatedAt":"2025-05-26 04:11:04.796151","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":1,"wordCount":8,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"❤️","count":1,"users":[{"id":7364,"username":"青年杰出贡献上交大門人","name":"紫金港第一皮革<・)))><<"}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":7514,"username":"萨卡兹雇佣兵","name":"神秘小维","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/f7/3a/f73ac401b7f6561a911c2f5c6b9769edb7dd526216d879bde8fa2f52989f0e22.avif","admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":52139,"postNumber":3,"raw":"很好、感觉 w 一串已经很幸福了 :bilibili_aojiao:\n（至少应该在平均线之上？\n***\n？为什么没有连成线（）哦，难道是 a34 那一项其实是否吗","cooked":"

很好、感觉 w 一串已经很幸福了 $\":bilibili_aojiao:\"$
\n（至少应该在平均线之上？

？为什么没有连成线（）哦，难道是 a34 那一项其实是否吗

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好吧我看错了
\n连线成功 $\":tieba_huanhu:\"$

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$\"35f452ab4d3c7f1d46ea5a50ff341b4b\"$
\n这就是我的答案☝️🤓（误）

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这也不是我的答案☝️🤓
\n（不过跟我的很接近了（

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原油们还可以来 bingo 这个 $\":tieba_laugh:\"$
\n $\"084191ba40625d07e56ff854a44418d5\"$

\n","createdAt":"2025-05-26 10:24:30.484594","updatedAt":"2025-05-26 10:24:30.484594","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":0,"likeCount":2,"wordCount":12,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"❤️","count":2,"users":[{"id":7364,"username":"青年杰出贡献上交大門人","name":"紫金港第一皮革<・)))><<"},{"id":7514,"username":"萨卡兹雇佣兵","name":"神秘小维"}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":1590,"username":"Revan","name":" ","avatarUrl":null,"admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":52217,"postNumber":7,"raw":"![6854608c2dbc655b860a5fa476f270d8|566x499](/uploads/image/73/10/731005e1894ab26a20a027760d49cf1459c460ef2a0b7af394642048126868ac.avif)\n“如果发现以往自己爱的人不再爱自己，能去寻找更加爱自己的人。”\n我要把这句话打印下来每天看（）","cooked":"

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\n“如果发现以往自己爱的人不再爱自己，能去寻找更加爱自己的人。”
\n我要把这句话打印下来每天看（）

\n","createdAt":"2025-05-26 11:36:21.611545","updatedAt":"2025-05-26 11:36:21.611545","replyToPostNumber":null,"replyCount":1,"likeCount":2,"wordCount":45,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"❤️","count":2,"users":[{"id":7364,"username":"青年杰出贡献上交大門人","name":"紫金港第一皮革<・)))><<"},{"id":7514,"username":"萨卡兹雇佣兵","name":"神秘小维"}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":1,"publicVersion":1,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":7599,"username":"一芥孤舟","name":null,"avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/9a/43/9a43f74612df85796ef924875aad16f81485ecbcb86c6a283c3cc1212c21f8be.avif","admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":52225,"postNumber":8,"raw":"[quote=\"一芥孤舟，post:7, topic:14620\"]\n如果发现以往自己爱的人不再爱自己，能去寻找更加爱自己的人\n[/quote]\n哎……想起这段：\n\n> *现在的流行文化极力否定这种平等（注：恋爱和其他关系的平等，如友情、同事情谊的），将浪漫的爱情置于一切之上，将其视为人与人之间最亲密的关系。热恋中的情侣总喜欢用一些概括性的和具有神圣性的夸张词语来赞美对方，这无疑助长了这种流行的等级制度。请注意，“我们是天生一对的”“你就是我生命的全部”等花言巧语显然太过夸张了。**[u] 浪漫的措辞固然能以一种与众不同的方式将两个人结合起来，但同事间的关系也是如此 [/u]**。我们对情侣间的局限性（或者同事间的包容性）谈的还不够多。例如，恋爱中的选择自由不如其他关系。此外，深陷其中的人们往往视野狭隘，容易产生一些极端理想化的愿景，这不利于人们走向更广泛的世界（爱情令人冲昏头脑）。最后，**[u] 众所周知的是，爱情的保质期很短 [/u]**。总之，**[u] 宣称爱情是人生最重要的东西的人是把这件事简单化了，这种做法很危险 [/u]**。*\n\n今天得到的所爱之人满心倾注的爱意，也许明天就会失去，这种想法是令人不安的，甚至是，直白的说，令人恶心的。但最终，我们也许会发现这是实际上是多么令人欣慰。我们在与他人的亲密关系中实际上永远只能理解我们自身，即使在最亲密的伴侣关系中，我们充其量也不过是和所爱之人“在黑暗中并肩而行”（周国平）","cooked":"

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\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t一芥孤舟，post:7, topic:14620:\n\t\t\t\t\t\t

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如果发现以往自己爱的人不再爱自己，能去寻找更加爱自己的人
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哎……想起这段：

\n
现在的流行文化极力否定这种平等（注：恋爱和其他关系的平等，如友情、同事情谊的），将浪漫的爱情置于一切之上，将其视为人与人之间最亲密的关系。热恋中的情侣总喜欢用一些概括性的和具有神圣性的夸张词语来赞美对方，这无疑助长了这种流行的等级制度。请注意，“我们是天生一对的”“你就是我生命的全部”等花言巧语显然太过夸张了。 浪漫的措辞固然能以一种与众不同的方式将两个人结合起来，但同事间的关系也是如此 。我们对情侣间的局限性（或者同事间的包容性）谈的还不够多。例如，恋爱中的选择自由不如其他关系。此外，深陷其中的人们往往视野狭隘，容易产生一些极端理想化的愿景，这不利于人们走向更广泛的世界（爱情令人冲昏头脑）。最后， 众所周知的是，爱情的保质期很短 。总之， 宣称爱情是人生最重要的东西的人是把这件事简单化了，这种做法很危险 。
\n

今天得到的所爱之人满心倾注的爱意，也许明天就会失去，这种想法是令人不安的，甚至是，直白的说，令人恶心的。但最终，我们也许会发现这是实际上是多么令人欣慰。我们在与他人的亲密关系中实际上永远只能理解我们自身，即使在最亲密的伴侣关系中，我们充其量也不过是和所爱之人“在黑暗中并肩而行”（周国平）

\n","createdAt":"2025-05-26 11:57:32.719084","updatedAt":"2025-05-26 12:08:33.051168","replyToPostNumber":7,"replyCount":1,"likeCount":2,"wordCount":537,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"❤️","count":2,"users":[{"id":7364,"username":"青年杰出贡献上交大門人","name":"紫金港第一皮革<・)))><<"},{"id":7514,"username":"萨卡兹雇佣兵","name":"神秘小维"}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":2,"publicVersion":2,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":1590,"username":"Revan","name":" ","avatarUrl":null,"admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":52232,"postNumber":9,"raw":"赞同这段话。“爱情”或者有人称之为“性缘关系”的这件事，在社会话语中似乎被抬得太高，有时几乎碾压了其他的关系。\n不过我个人没谈过恋爱，可能缺少切身体会。这里谈及的失去是失去非常亲密的朋友。确实在此前投入过多的感情，某种程度上自负地以为两个人共用着同一颗心。但，是的，生活毕竟是自己的。他人能够陪伴却终究是另一个独立的个体。\n[spoiler]（无意冒犯，但某种程度上是不是也是那段引用的佐证呢，提及爱就容易想到爱情。[/spoiler]","cooked":"

赞同这段话。“爱情”或者有人称之为“性缘关系”的这件事，在社会话语中似乎被抬得太高，有时几乎碾压了其他的关系。
\n不过我个人没谈过恋爱，可能缺少切身体会。这里谈及的失去是失去非常亲密的朋友。确实在此前投入过多的感情，某种程度上自负地以为两个人共用着同一颗心。但，是的，生活毕竟是自己的。他人能够陪伴却终究是另一个独立的个体。
\n（无意冒犯，但某种程度上是不是也是那段引用的佐证呢，提及爱就容易想到爱情。

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