{"topic":{"id":13835,"title":"如何正确与抑郁的朋友相处？","slug":"topic","categoryId":4,"createdAt":"2024-11-09 04:50:19.140198","bumpedAt":"2024-11-10 05:16:41.468691","views":208,"postsCount":25,"highestPostNumber":25,"likeCount":35,"closed":true,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"相处有时比较艰难，并且对自己也有些侵害，但也不是说就完全不相处了。以下是 OP 尝试过的：倾听对方诉苦，并尝试精神分析结果就是了解了她事无巨细从小到大一大堆成长经历及回忆，深切理解了她目前面对的困难与问题以及对未来的一大堆担忧。是挺痛苦的，但了解这些事情没有半点用处。OP 无法穿越时空、改变过去，所有的问题也只能她自己去解决。只不过从一个人精神痛苦变成两个人精神痛苦了。话疗胡乱分析一通，好言相劝，也没有任何用。而且可能状态差…","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"category":{"id":4,"name":"谈笑风生","slug":"general","color":"25AAE2"},"author":{"id":6205,"username":"uika_winwing","name":null,"avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/76/3b/763b1e5ad8a424c4450bb26cea5ae532e7b1cd9da926ac5d99215d7123bf6002.avif"},"tags":[]},"posts":[{"id":42998,"postNumber":1,"raw":"相处有时比较艰难，并且对自己也有些侵害，但也不是说就完全不相处了。\n\n以下是 OP 尝试过的：\n\n1. 倾听对方诉苦，并尝试精神分析\n\n结果就是了解了她事无巨细从小到大一大堆成长经历及回忆，深切理解了她目前面对的困难与问题以及对未来的一大堆担忧。\n\n是挺痛苦的，但了解这些事情没有半点用处。OP 无法穿越时空、改变过去，所有的问题也只能她自己去解决。只不过从一个人精神痛苦变成两个人精神痛苦了。\n\n2. 话疗\n\n胡乱分析一通，好言相劝，也没有任何用。而且可能状态差的时候就是不愿理会任何人，情绪很不稳定。\n\n3. 尝试提供实质性帮助\n\n实际上你很难真正理解对方的需求是什么，能提供的也只是自己所有的这一点点资源。所以其实帮不上，反而会增加压力。\n\n以下是准备做的：\n\n1. 在精神上保持距离\n\n自己心理健康最重要。\n\n2. Respect\n\n自己不愿接受现实，那自己高兴就好啰。","cooked":"

相处有时比较艰难，并且对自己也有些侵害，但也不是说就完全不相处了。

以下是 OP 尝试过的：

倾听对方诉苦，并尝试精神分析

结果就是了解了她事无巨细从小到大一大堆成长经历及回忆，深切理解了她目前面对的困难与问题以及对未来的一大堆担忧。

是挺痛苦的，但了解这些事情没有半点用处。OP 无法穿越时空、改变过去，所有的问题也只能她自己去解决。只不过从一个人精神痛苦变成两个人精神痛苦了。

话疗

胡乱分析一通，好言相劝，也没有任何用。而且可能状态差的时候就是不愿理会任何人，情绪很不稳定。

尝试提供实质性帮助

实际上你很难真正理解对方的需求是什么，能提供的也只是自己所有的这一点点资源。所以其实帮不上，反而会增加压力。

以下是准备做的：

在精神上保持距离

自己心理健康最重要。

Respect

自己不愿接受现实，那自己高兴就好啰。

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倾听对方诉苦，并尝试精神分析
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倾听并保密就够了，适当运用嗯啊对真的吗好惨抱抱你等敷衍大法，很多时候对方只是想倾诉表达并非求一个解决方法。

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从一个人精神痛苦变成两个人精神痛苦了。
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你读《骆驼祥子》也会和祥子共情的。

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\n不过确实应该敷衍一点，之前有点太当回事了

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敷衍是一种对自身的保护，抑郁情绪是有传染力的。虽然很抱歉但是这时候假装在听实际没有是最合适的。

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有没有可能你的认可会加强对方已有的神经回路，反倒成了阻碍

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成年人的一大美德是不试图改变别人，做好筛选是关键。毕竟你已经筛掉了东南亚非洲很多你更有可能实际小额贷款帮助到的人。

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来伪匿名一下
\n虽然性质不太一样，但经历也许类似
\n之前也有一个女性友人，以现在的网络评价标准来看是纯种 xxn，初中的时候过早的许下了会一直当个倾听者的承诺，导致在后来每次对方发起聊天都是诉苦/一些看不懂的乙游话题/极端话题

本人也尝试过从各种方面挖掘对方痛苦的根源，给出过一些建议，但经常会在下一次诉苦的时候发现对方还是在被同一件事困扰，甚至于建议都没实行
\n也进行过话疗，但同上，在对话中对方是沉浸在自己的苦痛里，听不进去理性的话，可能只是要一个一起共情仇恨的人

最后因为实在受不了单方面诉苦爆了一次，然后就是绝交和被挂空间了

我觉得楼主是否知道自己在这段关系中的位置，是单纯对方的情绪垃圾桶还是一个可以倾诉的友人
\n前者的话尽早 respect 越好，保不准哪天就成对方记恨的人了
\n后者的话如果对方没有改变的迹象可以精神洁癖，善用互联网面点大师“摸摸抱抱拍拍不是你的错”，双方都知道这是废话但就是有点用
\ntg 冲浪的经验来看，情绪爆发是经常的事，除了假装在听没有解决办法了，除非能帮助对方彻底脱离

愿楼主能相处的好，愿楼主的朋友能找到自己的光

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我的建议是别侮辱“朋友”这个词

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鲁迅写的很清楚了祥林嫂讲故事时候可爽了小孩是不是被狼叼走早不重要了

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🤣 😭直球太伤人了

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你有一种朦胧的救世主情结

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是的 🤔

不过有点不朦胧，挺明显的。所以也是在尝试改变心态

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好用的，就让她把你当一个垃圾桶，听她讲，她说的一些负能量的东西最好也别过脑，如果她有一些过激行为就干预一下

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不知。但最好能掌握主导权吧，一直听别人讲容易被绕进去。
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谢谢 [REDACTED] 喵 😺

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尝试精神分析
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精神分析是伪科学

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