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同学们有的有绩点有的有实习有的有论文有的有校园活动而鼠鼠只有 steam 游戏时长 🤡

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我觉得摆清自己想要什么很重要，不妨想想自己想要成为什么样的人

焦虑是没有意义的

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ぜーんぶ弾けなーい！

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亲亲，原神等级对绩点汇率大概是 10:1，可以考虑一下 ☺️

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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~~观看大量的同龄人成功案例产生焦虑进行脱敏训练~~
\n人生不过三万天

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有许多满足上述几点的优秀門友——逛交大門有益健康的又一大力证！🤣

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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现在的状态不足以成为想要的人但 peer 可以 🤡

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我感觉我没有对游戏的热情，但我觉得不正常

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我感觉我有点赛博 yw 了 $\":thinking_face_clown_face:\"$

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ぜーんぶ弾けなーい！

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每次看到交大都要先反应一下是哪个交大

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--.-..-....-..----.

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上海的

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都在喊祛魅，可有多少人有能力建立自己的荣誉系统呢

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同意，我一直觉得，只有获得过才能真真正正地完全祛魅 😹
\n光靠脑子自己告诉自己要祛魅，大部分情况下可能作用不明显 $\":mouse_hole:\"$

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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没办法，从小受的教育和文化就这样，俗话说就是病入膏肓了，其实 steam 时长也是一个优点，但你和社会都不认为这是优点，这就是观念的差异。之前去打体育比赛认识了几个 uw la crosse 的朋友，他们都能上 madison 的，但是那边相关社团更好，就选择了 la crosse.我感觉这俩学校的差距应该比西安交大和西安理工大

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说明美国中产梦已经破碎，本地普通人对上大学改变命运没有了渴望

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人在你身边，是会切身造成一些影响，我觉得这种靠自我心理暗示来解决，几乎不可能。
\n可以试着卷一个小众赛道，心理上提供一个切实的证据来说明自己的优势。

举个例子，我自认为文字鉴赏能力处于周边人的最高水平，想探讨这方面的话我有不错的知识储备，但是本质上在取巧，因为我不会跟作家比鉴赏能力，等遇到文学高手时我认为我数学水平远超他。于是几乎立于不败之地。

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打游戏也能打的很牛逼啊，有的游戏含金量比绩点论文灌水强多了，就怕你打游戏还专门挑那种“让账号变强”而不是“让玩家变强的”游戏玩，打了半天账号里啥啥都有了，自己的游戏水平没有一点提升

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找到自己想做的，让自己忙起来可能就好了。

大一大二也觉得 peer pressure 拉满——国内计算机那么多人，大家都在卷前端、后端，有很多大一就开源、公开课、项目的同龄人，每天都活在高考和 peer pressure 的阴影下。

现在临时 all in hpc，每天 rcore+cuda 双线程拉满，你跟我聊 peer pressure，我忙得看都不想多看他们一眼。

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这个对我也很有用，像我这样德行有损的做题 🐍确实很需要一点优越感 😸

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理想化地说，当评价标准变得单一之后，必然会有一部分人成为评价体系下的“失败者”。另外，理想主义的世界是：可能我的成绩、科研、比赛等等有若干不如另一个人，但我有着自己的价值。活成一个独特的自己。但骨感的是，我们中有一部分人，在大学乃至大学之前的教育中，并没有发现自己的独特价值，而是浸没于极端单一的评价体系中，甚至从年长一代的口中得知的也是，哪一家过得好，哪一家真是有福气。年长一代关心的是物质，或者更简单说，谁有钱（权）。如果我们把以上的一切都剥除掉（钱、成绩等等），人也许就显得极为苍白，好像森森白骨一般。社会把每个人都异化了

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